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How to simply create and stick with positive habits

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 Have you ever tried to create or form a habit? well if you have you know how hard it is to start a new habit leave alone sticking with the habit. This six-letter word can take you to unimaginable heights in the aspects of what you can accomplish and in the same way it can drag you to the gutters of life with bad habits. we cannot equate every aspect of our lives with habits but you will agree how we live our lives is for the most part controlled by habits. Talk of the kind of relationships, food, business, and life in general that we lead. Habits; are gained practices and molds systematically pursued until they turn practically unintentional. With this definition, look at the words "practically unintentional." This means that the habit is ingrained in you it is relatively uncontrollable. Concerning bad habits like procrastination, watching porn, junk eating, and so forth, it is so destructive. But with positive habits, this can be really, really good.   Basically, positive h...

How to know, you are doing the right thing for you

 Hey, have you ever thought that the reason you are struggling with certain things in your life is because of something else other than you? Maybe how you are brought up affected how you view relationships, how you were treated in certain situations has made you change the way you view things, maybe a breakup made you declare there is no love out there, and so forth. I am sure almost every one of us has. Surely what any of us has gone through affects how we view and define these "things" in our life. Talk of relationships, money, and life in general. I mean it is only natural, We are wired the way our brains are created to be for us, to protect us, and thus if anything happens against what is expected it is a cause of alarm. In other words, if for instance what you have done before failed, it's only natural that when you have a chance to do the same endeavor you become alerted and you end up hesitating to do it, or not doing it at all. These "things" that do hap...

How to actually win, no seriously win

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  Have you ever thought of achieving something? obviously, almost every single human has. Anyway if you have then you might know a thing or two about winning and what his brother called failure. Certainly, people who have tried to win have either won or lost.   Winning in anything either sport, business, goals, and so forth has one thing in common losing . Look at a winning team, a winning business, a winning individual, and the like. With a little bit of investigation, you will come to find out that they have lost in their practice and I might add they might have lost big time. Let me give you an example the successful company called Amazon, in 2014 produced a phone called the fire phone some analysts believed it would turn out to be a revolutionary type of product but a year later, the same phone was pulled out of production. Long story short it was a failure, and guess what was the cost? a whopping $170 million. Now as much as that sounds shocking the founder and CEO o...

5 GREAT MORNING HABITS

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Hey, let us face it, If there is anything hard is creating a new habit, and if that was not enough sticking with this habit, is even harder right? If you have tried, are trying, or intend to form and adhere to some new habits you are at the right place.   I have compiled a list of 5-morning habits that have done wonders for me, and they might be for you too. Somebody might ask why the morning though? And the answer is because of the simple reason that human brains are fresh and energized in the morning.  It is said when you make great habits they will take care of you . Just keep in mind they are not tasks to be done they are habits to be made. These habits will help you not only be able to have a happy, productive, and fulfilling day but also build a successful life out of small habits. So without any further ado let's get into it. 1. Waking up early Are you a morning person or a night owl? These are the kind of questions we often hear people talk and discuss. We have labeled...

Its a day at a time then it turns to weeks, months, Years and eventually it's a life time

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 Hey, every day is an opportunity if you are up you have this opportunity at your disposal to do whatever you want with it. Now how you do it or what you do is your choice, for the most part, you have to maybe, go to work, do this and that, and so on and so forth. The fact is every day is an opportunity, this opportunity has a limit though for one it has 24 hours in each. Each opportunity comes with that limit you can not take more or less that's it. One person puts it this way "it is not the number of hours, it's what you put in those hours." Now surely I am not here to give you a miraculous formula for the 24-hour day opportunity we have, but I am here to tell you there is a way of dealing with this opportunity and that is it is not the number of hours you work per day, it is working doing what? it is not how busy you are, it is busy doing what? because let us face it you can be busy the whole day and still be doing nothing and you can be busy for an hour and be doi...

what a year, 2020!

 Hey, what a year! surely if you have been in this year, you have seen some shit and I mean it, this is the kind of year that ends, and you say thank you to your God. I mean this year has had its highs and lows but something that will stand out is that it has taught us all some pretty important stuff. I remember vividly how 2019 was coming to an end and how I was looking forward to this year with all the aspirations and vigor to indulge in my activities and endeavors. I set the resolutions and boom the year started.  It picked off well until the pandemic was on our borders and now we had a master at our doorstep and environs dictating how we were going to live from thereon. The pandemic hit out of nowhere and soon what actually mattered the most mattered the least. People had plans to travel, take vacations, do stuff, this and that, but when the pandemic hit it was all about taking care and preserving the precious life they had. Perhaps this was to show us how we have taken wh...

The pandemic lessons and why they will always happen

 Hey, surely pandemics have always been with us right?, and as I should also say they are going to be with us. Let us face it there is another virus somewhere waiting to happen and I don't mean to scare anyone but to show what is actually reality. To be honest with ourselves the pandemics that do happen or will happen are usually 99% our faults caused by our negligence, carelessness, and so forth but also through good intentions like trying to experiment with a bunch of drugs to find a better one. Anyway, it should not be an excuse, as pandemics bring all the negative things that we all know yet funny enough through pandemics man has come out more capable and better with a drug to kill that virus and keep the virus in its place so to speak. But as much as pandemics come packed with all the negative stuff we should not forget all the good they come with. what do I mean you ask? pandemics come with their fair share of good talk the Covid 19 pandemic for instance I would say has come ...