Hey, have you ever thought that the reason you are struggling with certain things in your life is because of something else other than you? Maybe how you are brought up affected how you view relationships, how you were treated in certain situations has made you change the way you view things, maybe a breakup made you declare there is no love out there, and so forth. I am sure almost every one of us has.
Surely what any of us has gone through affects how we view and define these "things" in our life. Talk of relationships, money, and life in general. I mean it is only natural, We are wired the way our brains are created to be for us, to protect us, and thus if anything happens against what is expected it is a cause of alarm.
In other words, if for instance what you have done before failed, it's only natural that when you have a chance to do the same endeavor you become alerted and you end up hesitating to do it, or not doing it at all. These "things" that do happen to us are why we tend to struggle and I might add continue to make the same mistakes over and over again. The good news is, nothing is permanent and the bad news is well nothing is permanent.
There is no sure way of knowing what you are doing is absolutely the right thing for you. Let us face it, things will always happen to us take it to the bank and cash it. Whether you have the best strategy or understand yourself to the maximum. It always rains on everyone.
What am I saying? Things will happen to us whether we like it or not heartbreaks, failures, mistakes, losses, and the like, but what I would want to put across and surely how to know what you are doing is right for you is to learn. In other words, you do make the plans and strategies, but you keep in mind that you can fail, mistakes are inevitable and there is nothing like perfect anyway.
How to know what you are doing is right for you is a two-way door hinged at the middle in the sense that you have to know, what to do but also and most importantly you have to know, what not to do! knowing what to do is the easy part, knowing what not to do is the hard part. I will leave that to you but remember it is the hard things to do that make an impact in our lives. At least, I know it has in mine.
In a nutshell, there is nothing like knowing exactly that what you are doing is absolutely the right thing for you, but there is, knowing what not to do. As I close I would like to leave you with a quote that has made a huge impact on my life.
"Your life is a sum of all the choices you make both consciously and unconsciously if you can get to control the process of choosing, you get to control all aspects of your life, and you get to have the freedom that comes with controlling your life."- MJ Demarco
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