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How to keep Moving through challenges and obstacles

 Hey, now as we all know people move with time right? how old are you? how long will this take? how far do we need to go? and so forth. Well, as much as these seem like important questions they are not that important. Sounds counter-intuitive, I know here is what I mean well as much as we should have one eye on the clock and another on what we are doing we should not be dwelling these on types of questions.

What we should ask is how can I do it smarter? how can I achieve that? how can I be able to solve that? in other words, we should and we will ask questions but what type of question you ask is the key. 

If you want to create/produce/accomplish/achieve/gain whatever it is, you should focus on content, quality, and how to do it smarter. Not self-sabotaging with questions and prejudging with queries like how long will this take? how fast can I achieve this? If you want to write a book for example you forget about the book and focus on one topic and narrow it down to writing 100 words about that topic. If you want to be the best singer you forget about being this amazing singer and focus on learning something new about singing and maybe practice for a day.

The point is, to stop minding about the big goal and focus on creating steps that will get you to the big goal. I like the way this Asian saying puts it  "the journey is as important as the destination." In other words, it turns out what you want is important but how you get there is of much importance as that "what" if not perhaps it is of more importance.  

So to summarise what you want, can and will happen as most certainly you want it to happen but there are things to consider most importantly being the core part of your "want." I am not saying there is no challenges/obstacles/hindrances/issue/questions that will pop up, in fact, there is a guarantee that they will but as much as they do you have to know where to put the focus on just like an unfocused sun can not burn, but a focused sun can start a fire that can burn a whole forest.

Just remember part of being able to accomplish things even the mundane is to know what to look over and what to look into. So as you look over the ending year perhaps you might want to stop looking outside and seeing all that is not happening and has happened and start to look inside and see what can happen. 

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