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Let us talk Change

 Hey, changing is a broad word, right? like what do you mean how to change? The change I am talking about is personal. You know as humans we reach a point where we know we have to change, in fact, let me correct that, "we want to change" but there is that resistance to stay to the old self so to speak. 

Talk of the change we innately know is good for ourselves, deep-down we know but going ahead and actually walking that talk is the mountain very few can climb. Hey, I am not trying to scare anyone but I am trying to paint the real picture. Let us face it change is difficult, we all know that.

Now having said that if you want to change, or you are thinking of changing personally whether it is your lifestyle, your habits, your career, your business, and so forth. It is not going to come just like that I mean you are not going to just say "okay here is what I want" and you start to change just like that, no, it will take something more than that. 

First, let us look at human nature for a second it is researched that human nature always has resistance, in the sense that if you want to do something new or even something you are used to and want to improve it in particular. The mind will naturally resist and this is the point where the thoughts will try and tell you to just keep doing what you used to do. 

For example, producers usually face resistance when they want to produce whatever they want to produce. For instance, as writers, we face writer's block which basically means resistance, you sit at your desk to write, and boom! you can not put a single word out. The truth of the matter is the mind will have that resistance. Now the unsettling question is can you overcome this 'resistance?' the answer is of course. Otherwise, I would not be telling you about it

Well, the humanly possible way to overcome this resistance is to ask yourself why, why are you changing? is it because you want to impress someone? is it because you want to move with what is in fashion? If you change for any reason other than your own conviction the higher chance is that, it will not happen.

Here is why changing anything from your conviction is more powerful than any resistance that is out there. If that change comes from within then you will feel obliged to commit to the very end and nine times out of ten you will see that change come to life and vice versa is also true.

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