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Finding Happiness

 Well the topic might sound corny in that we can not really tell how someone finds happiness but the contrary is also true, you can find happiness or happiness finds you. Anyway, happiness is something of different definitions by different people. However you define what happiness is to you, one fact is still indisputable, and that is that happiness is when what you are doing, saying, and believing are in harmony.

Life has its twist and turns and all the more reasons to look for your happiness in other words do, say, and practice what you believe in. We get to go for what works and just go with it, which turns out to be not what we were expecting and we start all these other things which I am not going to go into. So what am I really saying? I think your happiness is sort of how you are as an individual. That will answer that question in that how you love yourself and treat yourself is almost in line with your happiness. I think we have all heard or come across the statement that earthly or materialistic things don't bring happiness to anyone except efficiency, management, and responsibility. 

Happiness is how you are doing things that are in line with your believes and values. If you see a person in work that he/she is passionate about you see a broad grin on their face even after finishing whatever it is that they are involved in they have a huge smile on their face showing almost a glow in their face. It will not matter where they are or what is around them because what matters is that particular moment, nothing but what they have done whatever it is.

So to my point, For you to have your happiness you must know what is 'that' that you believe in and to know this you sort of first, fall in love with yourself so to speak. Know what kind of values you are really attuned to. This way, you will have a more vivid picture of what is happiness according to you. Then you start doing activities and being with people of the same feather so to speak.

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